This week's chat: a conversation we cannot have too many times
about "safe use" policies, especially for children and youth.
9:00 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:00 AnjWiley |
9:01 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:01 rev_david |
9:01 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:01 MeredithGould |
9:02 | @MeredithGould That is a production esp. if you make the mayo! <---always! Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:02 AnjWiley |
9:02 | Ok, I am getting nothing on Tweetdeck or Tweetchat. Is it just me?? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:02 MeredithGould |
9:02 | If this is your first tweetchat ever, please don’t get discouraged by the pace! Ask if you need help. We’re a friendly group. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:02 AnjWiley |
9:02 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:02 azrork |
9:03 | Never mind. Stuff coming through now. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:03 MeredithGould |
9:03 | We’ll get started in a minute with self-introductions, but as ever, we start with prayer. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:03 AnjWiley |
9:03 | @MeredithGould tweetdeck is oddly working for me tonight. #Chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:03 MetroMonk |
9:04 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:04 azrork |
9:04 | @MeredithGould I'm not getting anything either #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:04 JealaineMarple |
9:04 | Take cover, tweeps. Here comes an onslaught of #GetRealChat & #ChSocM tweets over the next hour. :) Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:04 paulsteinbrueck |
9:04 | Almighty & merciful God, we rejoice in your abiding presence everywhere & your mercy at all times. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:04 AnjWiley |
9:05 | Love it. RT @paulsteinbrueck: Take cover, tweeps. Here comes onslaught of #GetRealChat & #ChSocM tweets over the next hour. :) Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:05 mstribling |
9:05 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:05 MeredithGould |
9:05 | Tweetchat seems to be a bit slow tonight so bear with us! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:05 AnjWiley |
9:05 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:05 MetroMonk |
9:06 | @JealaineMarple They are coming thru slowly but surely! Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:06 AnjWiley |
9:06 | Feel free to mute me for the next hour as I participate in the weekly #chsocm chat. Or hey, join us. Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:06 JealaineMarple |
9:06 | We give thanks for this & every opportunity to share experience & inquiry anchored in faith. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:06 AnjWiley |
9:06 | We ask your Holy Spirit to inspire tonight’s conversation & guide us as we move forward in love & service. Amen. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:06 AnjWiley |
9:07 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:07 RevWeb |
9:07 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:07 MeredithGould |
9:07 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:07 reckshow |
9:07 | Next up: self-introductions. In addition to your church affiliation, please let everyone how you currently use social media #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:07 AnjWiley |
9:09 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:09 mirgray |
9:09 | #Episcopal priest in Baltimore. Using SM to build community, spread Good News, share faith stories. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:09 RevWeb |
9:09 | <--ELCA seminary admissions rep. (Wartburg) Use SM to connect with current/potential students &to follow epic things like @rev_david #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:09 JealaineMarple |
9:09 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:09 azrork |
9:09 | <--Dir. of Communications, @UpstateNYSynod ELCA. Google+, Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, eMail newsletters and LinkedIn #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:09 nealffischer |
9:10 | <--author, sociologist, digital strategy & communications consulting, gadfly, smitten w/social media for community building #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:10 MeredithGould |
9:10 | David: Lutheran pastor, social media gadfly. I'm lurking - yes that's right, lurking - tonight while on the #roadtripofawesome. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:10 rev_david |
9:10 | @AnjWiley Founder & CEO of @OurChurchDotCom, blogger, comm helper at a CMA church in Clearwater, FL #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:10 paulsteinbrueck |
9:10 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:10 thecatholiccoup |
9:10 | matt. umc pastor in Indy. use sm daily in ministry & life. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:10 mattlipan |
9:10 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:10 MeredithGould |
9:11 | Metro here, not affiliated anymore. Looking though. Use SM to facilitate relationships & connect. Christ is the hope of the world #Chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:11 MetroMonk |
9:11 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:11 mirgray |
9:11 | <--Working in Catholic communications, interested in how people communicate #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:11 AnjWiley |
9:11 | Stewardship educator, UM laity in Alaska, use SM for work, play, and everything in between. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:11 ofredrick |
9:11 | @MeredithGould @rev_david ... he participates in epic "things." I can only pray to be so cool. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:11 JealaineMarple |
9:11 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:11 azrork |
9:12 | ►ABC-USA pastor, author, blogger. Use SM to connect, meet new folk, share ideas. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:12 alanrud |
9:12 | @rev_david You will not be marked absent! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:12 AnjWiley |
9:12 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:12 skwechter |
9:12 | (also multi-tasking tonight.) #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:12 reckshow |
9:13 | @rev_david no lurkers! :) #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:13 alanrud |
9:13 | Housekeeping Tweets: We will assume tweets during this chat yours & do not represent your church or organization #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:13 AnjWiley |
9:13 | @MeredithGould hmm, it seems twitter doesn't like my blackberry symbols. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:13 alanrud |
9:13 | Kindly remember we’re here to share with & support one another. Please use DM or email to pitch products/services #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:13 AnjWiley |
9:14 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:14 MeredithGould |
9:14 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:14 edkay77 |
9:14 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:14 MetroMonk |
9:14 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:14 thecatholiccoup |
9:14 | ABC-USA pastor, author, blogger. Use SM to connect, meet new folk, share ideas #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:14 alanrud |
9:15 | helping to put on a QR Code scavenger hunt at our mission grounds!! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:15 thecatholiccoup |
9:15 | If you didn't see any of my tweets today: I am moderating this chat. That concludes housekeeping. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:15 AnjWiley |
9:16 | Jumping in late, w/a wonky connection, use SM to spread & learn new ideas. Episcopalian. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:16 LuckyCharm333 |
9:16 | Just me, fashionably late for the #chsocm chat. Me: Papa. Geek. Lutheran. Primary steward for @ChristianWebRes Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:16 skenow |
9:16 | @thecatholiccoup That sounds fun! Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:16 AnjWiley |
9:16 | Very very cool. RT @thecatholiccoup: helping to put on a QR Code scavenger hunt at our mission grounds!! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:16 mirgray |
9:18 | @LuckyCharm333 that word, "wonky" is so wonky. ;) #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:18 alanrud |
9:19 | Want to know which #chsocm chat was the best? The next one Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:19 skenow |
9:19 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:19 LuckyCharm333 |
9:19 | Tonight we’re chatting about developing boundaries for technology use #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:19 AnjWiley |
9:20 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:20 MeredithGould |
9:20 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:20 LuckyCharm333 |
9:20 | Speaking of wonky both twitter and tweetchat r slow for me #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:20 skwechter |
9:20 | T1 What elements must be included in a ministry safe use policy? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:20 AnjWiley |
9:20 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:20 MeredithGould |
9:20 | @KatieKolodzy it's a twitter chat about the church and social media :) #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:20 thecatholiccoup |
9:20 | @WorldMedCard and that one is now! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:20 skenow |
9:21 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:21 paulsteinbrueck |
9:21 | @MeriannaNeely likewise. #chsocm is a great community, very helpful too. Are you in church and/or ministry? Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:21 MetroMonk |
9:21 | RT @skwechter: Speaking of wonky both twitter and tweetchat r slow for me //Same here! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:21 LuckyCharm333 |
9:21 | T1 Elements that protect congregants as well as clergy & other church workers. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:21 MeredithGould |
9:21 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:21 ChristianWebRes |
9:21 | RT @MeredithGould: T1 Elements that protect congregants as well as clergy & other church workers. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:21 reckshow |
9:22 | T1: elements that are clear, well thought, and not left to interpretation. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:22 JealaineMarple |
9:22 | T1 Not sure I understand the question... #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:22 LuckyCharm333 |
9:22 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:22 ChristianWebRes |
9:23 | T1-Take all best practices from IRL communications and apply to SM. No triangulation. If you dont want it quoted, dont say it. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:23 RevWeb |
9:23 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:23 MeredithGould |
9:23 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:23 paulsteinbrueck |
9:24 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:24 mirgray |
9:24 | But at the same time, develop a policy that is best for YOUR context. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:24 JealaineMarple |
9:24 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:24 LuckyCharm333 |
9:24 | T1: Most important policy element: written, approved and widely distributed! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:24 ofredrick |
9:24 | RT @ofredrick: T1: Most important policy element: written, approved and widely distributed! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:24 MeredithGould |
9:25 | T1: clear and protective of the Children in community -- outreach #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:25 WorldMedCard |
9:25 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:25 nealffischer |
9:25 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:25 skenow |
9:25 | T1 A policy that includes clear sanctions & describes/explains how they'll be enforced. Otherwise, it's just blah blah #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:25 MeredithGould |
9:25 | Pls let ud differentiate between policyand guidelines! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:25 skwechter |
9:26 | @skwechter How would you distinguish between a policy and guidelines? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:26 MeredithGould |
9:26 | T1-Discussed this very thing w/senior staff today. Need a clergy HR policy for SM use. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:26 RevWeb |
9:26 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:26 reckshow |
9:27 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:27 WorldMedCard |
9:27 | @MeriannaNeely So, it's rules for what staff are allowed to do on social media? #ChSocM Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:27 paulsteinbrueck |
9:27 | @MeredithGould is that what we need or do we need to help congregants understand who they are and who they are called to be. #ChSocM Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:27 MeriannaNeely |
9:27 | @MeredithGould So did you see my peeve? Policies that exist in meeting minutes on someone's (not sure who's) computer. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:27 ofredrick |
9:27 | T1 Frankly, I'd like to see churches get clear about when to call civil authorities when something dangerous/illegal has happened. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:27 MeredithGould |
9:27 | T1: clear expectations of use & clear responsibility of use. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:27 mattlipan |
9:27 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:27 nealffischer |
9:27 | T1: we are talking about a child protection policy, right? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:27 alanrud |
9:28 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:28 MeredithGould |
9:28 | @ofredrick I'm with you on that one! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:28 MeredithGould |
9:28 | @paulsteinbrueck How staff use technology to communicate with their ministries #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:28 AnjWiley |
9:28 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:28 mirgray |
9:28 | T1: Social media is defined by society in real time, if we bound it then growth is omitted ? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:28 WorldMedCard |
9:29 | I find most social media policies are written by people who do not use/understand social media. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:29 rev_david |
9:29 | @WorldMedCard ? bound it? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:29 MeredithGould |
9:29 | @AnjWiley T1: Here's my view... Does Your Organization Need a Social Media Policy? - occ.tc/qh8H9H #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:29 paulsteinbrueck |
9:29 | RT @rev_david: I find most social media policies are written by people who do not use/understand social media.//Too true, alas. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:29 MeredithGould |
9:29 | RT @rev_david: I find most social media policies are written by people who do not use/understand social media.//Amen!! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:29 JealaineMarple |
9:29 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:29 mattlipan |
9:29 | @MeredithGould are we as the church the social media police? #ChSocM Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:29 MeriannaNeely |
9:30 | @MeredithGould Policy uses "must" or "shall". Guidelines use "may" and "should". #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:30 mirgray |
9:30 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:30 ofredrick |
9:30 | Discussion is leading to T2: How do those elements change for youth & teens? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:30 AnjWiley |
9:30 | What about a broader scope? Safety for families on social media #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:30 skenow |
9:30 | @MeridithGould - bound as in define limits.. that deters organic growth (in some cases) #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:30 WorldMedCard |
9:30 | @paulsteinbrueck I was just about to say the exact same thing! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:30 rev_david |
9:31 | @MeriannaNeely No, we have a moral, ethical obligation to protect children & youth, as well as our adults from attack. #ChSocM Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:31 MeredithGould |
9:31 | @MeredithGould @rev_david Oh, you mean like no Episcopal bishops tweeting during House of Bishops meetings? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:31 RevWeb |
9:31 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:31 mirgray |
9:31 | RT @skwechter: @MeredithGould #chsocm guidelines are best practices. Policy is something I must follow.#chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:31 MeredithGould |
9:31 | @paulsteinbrueck Some are driven by stupid clergy posting stupid stuff they'd never say IRL. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:31 RevWeb |
9:31 | RT @paulsteinbrueck @rev_david I also find most social media policies are driven by fear. #chsocm // yup. 1 John 4:18 Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:31 rev_david |
9:32 | @skwechter I'm all for setting policies regarding #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:32 MeredithGould |
9:32 | T2: I find this a difficult question as SM does not pay attention to state/country borders. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:32 JealaineMarple |
9:32 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:32 skwechter |
9:32 | @JealaineMarple T2 is up? What is it! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:32 MeredithGould |
9:32 | @paulsteinbrueck I think some boundaries in the form of guidance & education need to be in place esp with youth. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:32 AnjWiley |
9:33 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:33 JealaineMarple |
9:33 | RT @JealaineMarple: RT @AnjWiley: Discussion is leading to T2: How do those elements change for youth & teens? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:33 MeredithGould |
9:33 | t2: i wonder if there is danger in differing policies or approaches of sm engagement based upon age? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:33 mattlipan |
9:33 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:33 alanrud |
9:34 | T2 Teens/Youth-No names when we post unless in public leadership pos. like Pres. of the Youth Org. They know we can post name then. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:34 nealffischer |
9:34 | For people outside of "repercussions," guidelines should be a covenant. Great for youth and young adults as it defines expectations. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:34 ofredrick |
9:34 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:34 AnjWiley |
9:34 | @mattlipan That's interesting. So then no greater obligation to protect children and teens? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:34 MeredithGould |
9:34 | RE: T2 - analytic data will yield the answer and with social Media online there is tons ! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:34 WorldMedCard |
9:34 | T2 - Yes to specific policies protecting youth/children. Otherwise, I lean toward guidelines & best practices. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:34 rev_david |
9:34 | @mattlipan Not arguing, BTW, just curious #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:34 MeredithGould |
9:35 | @MeredithGould to the best of our ability, but we can't control Social Media or all the users #ChSocM Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:35 MeriannaNeely |
9:35 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:35 paulsteinbrueck |
9:35 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:35 MeredithGould |
9:35 | @MeriannaNeely Guidelines also can free people to use when they set expectations. Clarifies the "may I use social media" question. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:35 mirgray |
9:35 | @MeredithGould i wonder if obligation is not age-specific? i guess wondering why our sm engagement would need to be age appropriate? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:35 mattlipan |
9:36 | #Chsocm SM is an open source community and Im not sure how much policing and protecting can happen. I think Opel participate or just don't. Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:36 MetroMonk |
9:36 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:36 MeredithGould |
9:37 | @paulsteinbrueck Some parishes/denoms also saying clergy cannot accept friending from congregants/youth/etc. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:37 RevWeb |
9:37 | and we all realize that setting a guideline, there are those who will "color outside the lines" =)) #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:37 WorldMedCard |
9:37 | "opel" was supposed to read "ppl" blast my large thumbs... #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:37 MetroMonk |
9:37 | T2: Former privacy policies for youth are no longer valid. Youth today expect little in SM privacy. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:37 ofredrick |
9:37 | T2: We have a separate policy regarding use of likeness of kids and teens. We try hard to communicate it to all members. #ChSocM Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:37 azrork |
9:38 | T1 & 2 I wonder if guidelines are different at different levels, e.g., local church v. diocese/synod/session? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:38 MeredithGould |
9:38 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:38 edkay77 |
9:38 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:38 edkay77 |
9:38 | @MeriannaNeely @mirgray is the separation for safety or bc kids don't want others to know they go to church? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:38 MetroMonk |
9:39 | @ofredrick But their parents may expect privacy. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:39 azrork |
9:39 | @RevWeb @paulsteinbrueck That is the challenge since thats how youth & their parents communicate. So how do we work with it? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:39 AnjWiley |
9:39 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:39 mirgray |
9:39 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:39 skenow |
9:40 | t2: does age change the "appropriateness" of sm engagement for a ministry? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:40 mattlipan |
9:40 | @ofredrick Do we let youth set privacy standards or hold them to safe church/higher standard? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:40 RevWeb |
9:40 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:40 azrork |
9:40 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:40 ofredrick |
9:40 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:40 AnjWiley |
9:41 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:41 WorldMedCard |
9:41 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:41 edkay77 |
9:41 | @ofredrick No - I mean their parents may not want us using their pictures on church SM sites. #ChSocM Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:41 azrork |
9:41 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:41 MeriannaNeely |
9:41 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:41 AnjWiley |
9:41 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:41 mirgray |
9:42 | Great! RT @MeriannaNeely we've actually established a covenant with youth to separate school and church experience. Student created. #ChSocM Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:42 mirgray |
9:43 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:43 ofredrick |
9:43 | I think parents need to be informed, educated, guided as much or more than staff & clergy and set boundaries for tech use. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:43 AnjWiley |
9:43 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:43 MeredithGould |
9:44 | @MeriannaNeely What do you mean by "covenant"? #ChSocM Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:44 MeredithGould |
9:44 | @MetroMonk Yes. I imagine some youth don't want to be "outed" as Christians. Some adults don't. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:44 mirgray |
9:44 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:44 RevWeb |
9:44 | @MeriannaNeely interesting. it seems to separate the 2 also keeps other students from seeing that religion is not punitive? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:44 mattlipan |
9:45 | And I also think that more clergy should be willing to embrace SM. It's not going anywhere. It won't bite...I promise. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:45 JealaineMarple |
9:45 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:45 ofredrick |
9:45 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:45 paulsteinbrueck |
9:45 | There is a difference between what people post and what the institution posts. We can't control others, but must behave ourselves #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:45 nealffischer |
9:45 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:45 MeredithGould |
9:45 | did we drop : T2 How would we know where we're succeeding & where we need improvement otherwise? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:45 WorldMedCard |
9:46 | @MeriannaNeely Yes, I know. I'm curious how the jargon is being used at a practical, actionable level. #ChSocM Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:46 MeredithGould |
9:46 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:46 paulsteinbrueck |
9:46 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:46 skenow |
9:47 | @MetroMonk We have a policy (email) prayer chain only prays for those giving permission even if no name given. Not sure on this. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:47 mirgray |
9:47 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:47 AnjWiley |
9:47 | @paulsteinbrueck Our policy is mainly to protect privacy. #ChSocM Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:47 azrork |
9:47 | Totally unrealistic & probably not even desirable to forbid DMs & private msgs. Agree w/@paulsteinbrueck about access to troubled #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:47 MeredithGould |
9:48 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:48 MeredithGould |
9:48 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:48 WorldMedCard |
9:49 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:49 skenow |
9:49 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:49 mirgray |
9:49 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:49 ofredrick |
9:49 | @WorldMedCard A trust barrier between parent and child? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:49 AnjWiley |
9:49 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:49 WorldMedCard |
9:50 | @MeredithGould @AnjWiley And the little monsters still find ways around the oversight. Trust me. I know. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:50 ofredrick |
9:50 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:50 WorldMedCard |
9:51 | @WorldMedCard My mother read my diary & plowed thru my stuff all the time. I got therapy. I got over it. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:51 MeredithGould |
9:52 | @WorldMedCard @AnjWiley I would absolutely ready their diary if I thought there was something crucial I should know!! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:52 ofredrick |
9:52 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:52 mirgray |
9:52 | @MeridithGould .. Me - never had diary .. lol .. no any fallback good or bad there ! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:52 WorldMedCard |
9:53 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:53 nealffischer |
9:53 | @ofredrick but you do not break that bond until you see signs of 'an issue' if you break trust, then what is left ? #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:53 WorldMedCard |
9:53 | @nealffischer Nothing. The convo has gotten off track! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:53 MeredithGould |
9:53 | @WorldMedCard There's a big diff b/w a diary & communication w another person. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:53 paulsteinbrueck |
9:54 | RT @mirgray: @WorldMedCard Not quite the same. Diary was talk with myself not the world. #chsocm #notaparent #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:54 AnjWiley |
9:54 | Measuring & protecting was what T2 started with .. and then Parenting traced in #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:54 WorldMedCard |
9:54 | @nealffischer Nothing…except that in faith communities, we should all protect children as parents would. #ChSocM Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:54 azrork |
9:55 | @MeredithGould @nealffischer how can the church aid in teaching families about social media, that's #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:55 skenow |
9:55 | @nealffischer We are often helping in the boundary discussion with both youth and parents. #ChSocM #butseeyourpoint Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:55 mirgray |
9:55 | RT @MeredithGould: @nealffischer Nothing. The convo has gotten off track!//way off track...on course to a different city #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:55 JealaineMarple |
9:56 | @nealffischer @WorldMedCard Faith communities revolve around families so it makes sense to start there! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:56 AnjWiley |
9:56 | @WorldMedCard There is big difference between trust and parental oversight. No privacy allowed if I'm concerned about health/safety. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:56 ofredrick |
9:56 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:56 mirgray |
9:57 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:57 MeredithGould |
9:57 | RT @AnjWiley: @nealffischer @WorldMedCard Faith communities revolve around families so it makes sense to start there! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:57 skenow |
9:57 | Amen AnjWiley: @nealffischer @WorldMedCard Faith communities revolve AROUND families so it makes sense to start there! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:57 WorldMedCard |
9:57 | T2 about kids? It takes a village IRL. And it takes an SM village, too. We're into new media here. Be vigilant. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:57 RevWeb |
9:57 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:57 ofredrick |
9:57 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:57 azrork |
9:58 | @MeredithGould Indeed. Twitter is slow tonight. Maybe only prayer then... #ChSocM Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:58 mirgray |
9:58 | @ofredrick Oh I'm happy to have a chat about crappy permissive parenting, but not during a #chsocm chat! Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:58 MeredithGould |
9:58 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:58 MeredithGould |
9:58 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:58 ofredrick |
9:58 | I agree churches should not place anyone in a difficult place. But, I don't feel the church can or should make a parent's decision #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:58 nealffischer |
9:59 | Holy holy, Coming up on the hour, we conclude with this prayer from Compline: #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:59 AnjWiley |
9:59 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:59 skenow |
9:59 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:59 mirgray |
9:59 | Guide us waking, O Lord, and guard us sleeping; that awake we may watch with Christ & asleep we may rest in peace #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:59 AnjWiley |
9:59 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:59 MeredithGould |
9:59 | @MeredithGould But related - the church needs to teach parents the import of SM oversight with their kids. Don't forbid, get on it!! #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 9:59 ofredrick |
10:00 | The transcript of tonight’s chat will be posted on churchsocmed.blogspot.com within a few hours. #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 10:00 AnjWiley |
10:00 | @nealffischer but the church can offer leadership and education #chsocm Tuesday August 21, 2012 10:00 skenow |
10:00 | Tuesday August 21, 2012 10:00 AnjWiley |
The topics:
T1: What elements must be included in a ministry safe use policy?
T2: How do those elements change for youth & teens?
T3: What is the effect of technology on the family?
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